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Tuesday, December 27, 2011

GMMP Daily Meditation Instructions


Gold Mind Meditation
 Instructions:  Daily Sittings



1.    Select a time and place, where you can sit comfortably alone and uninterrupted if possible.  Use the same place each time (chair, cushion on floor, carpet).  This will enhance your practice. 
      Quiet is nice, but not necessary.

2.    Choose a length of time to sit.  Start small, say 5 or 10 minutes, and gradually increase the time, as you are comfortable with it (45min.+). Always continue till the finish time has arrived; this is keeping a promise you’re making with yourself.

3.    Set a timer or cell phone alarm to announce the end of your session, then you won’t have to think about it.

4.    Begin sitting, relaxed and upright, not rigid.  Place awareness or attention on the actual sensations in your body as your breath comes and goes naturally. These sensations may be most predominant in your chest and abdomen as they rise and fall, or at the nostrils and tip of the nose. Allow your breathing to be at it’s own pace. You might like to take three or four deep long breaths to begin the meditation and then let the breath breathe itself. Observe the sensations exactly as they are.

5.    Your mind will most certainly wander into thinking of the past and future. It may obsess about worries, plans or fears. It may rehearse conversations.  Let it be; please do not try to stop it from wandering. This never works. Instead, when you wake up to this wandering, very gently return your attention to sensations of breathing. (Relax, put it in neutral, very awake but not going anywhere, rather waking up)

6.    Feel directly and be-with (experience) whatever occurs for you in this period of meditation: body sensations, thoughts, moods, emotions, sensations and feelings. Just consciously note what comes up, see that ‘arising’, and then return to the breath sensations.  Be at peace with things as they are in present moment.  Remind yourself of the intended purpose of sitting in meditation and continue.

7.    Getting bored?  Cool!  this is another 'object of observation', look closedly, it will change.  Continue until the alarm goes off.  Smile, you are doing well, learning a new skill that will grow positively for your lifetime! Sitting time is healing time.  Stay with it. Neuroscientists say regular practice is the biggest enhancer of neuroplasticity - healing.

8.    Read this again till you know every word!  That’s it; there is no more.

My Project's ground; my experience.


Being truthful and accurate in writing about my project I must share the following.  The Project is a stand I take, using mindfulness practice.  Inherent in this Project is the fact that I do still live with traumatic brain injury.   The TBI hasn’t magically gone away, rather it is a continuing part of my life that I get to have.  I know many of the recurring and ongoing symptoms.  I regularly experience the deficits of short-term and other memory loss.  Foggy mental state arises unbidden.  Often I engage in Leapfrog speaking, blurting out thoughts that arise often inappropriately, automatically. Self centerdness often overrides compassion.  Knowing the deficits is only the first step in compensating for or ideally clearing them up (awareness and neuroplasticity). With TBI I’m hard wired for the deficit due to brain damage. I can live with positive intention (possibility). I know the positive effects of mindfulness practice in my own life experience and share it with you.

I still intend to formulate a way of being that works with frustrations that arise – not as a hope, rather as a real possibility.  I am 'standing' or should we say  'sitting mindfully'), for the possibilities that are real!  Being/acting this way the fog often clears, mental states change (self regulation) and I am not lost in confusion.

Mindfulness practice allows me to see that with intention I can have new behaviors arise as well as make amends or be responsible for what has happened.  There are many possibilities before us all of the time
With mindfulness we can skillfully chose how to make one thing or another happen.  Also for me mindfulness tangibly results in the very knowable form of what are
called the ‘seven factors of enlightenment’:
  • Mindfulness   i.e. to be aware and mindful in all activities and movements both physical and mental
  • Investigation   into the nature of  life
  • Energy a feeling of focus and aliveness
  • Joy or rapture lightening or delight
  • Relaxation or tranquility  of both body and mind
  • Concentration  a calm, one-pointed state of concentration of mind
  • Equanimity, to be able to face life with all its' vicissitudes being calm of mind and in tranquility, without disturbance.
This is a canonical list and at another time I will share how exactly I know these factors in my life experience.  Direct knowing of these is clearly observable and actually is possible in our practice.  This can be said or framed as fuel for practice.
Why to do it! 

My project is to share my experience and practice clearly. It just may work for you, explore, try it out. Next I will post meditation instructions.

Thursday, December 15, 2011

For folks here in Portland Metro area, Meeting this Saturday:

BRAINSTORMERS II
(Survivor self-help group)
Emanuel Hospital, M.O.B.-West
2801 N Gantenbein
Northeast Portland, OR 97227
3rd Saturday
10:00am-12:00 noon
Steve Wright
biaor@biaoregon.org
503.413.7707

Also, Gold Mind Meditation Project is now on the calendar in July, 2012 for the Birrdsong Group at Legacy Good Samaritan for a Seminar (Saturday one day session, followed by six weekly classes)
and this will be posted at http://www.birrdsong.org




Friday, November 4, 2011

I'm in the role of Peer Coordinator for this month's BIRRDSong, Nov. 5th meeting and discussion to be held at Portland's Good Samaritan Hospital on 23rd in the Wistar Morris Room (ask reception if you don't know where it is).


Topic: Family & Caregivers; Friends of Survivors,  Relationships

Faciltators: Faith Walmer ; landis (David Farr)

Please join us in exploring this topic and sharing your experiences, insights, and advice.  You can make a direct difference for BI survivors and their family and friends by joining this dialogue. 

We'll briefly share our struggles as family members coping with the changes and challenges BIs can bring to families.  We'll share not only what we've learned from our experiences, but also how we can continue to learn from them.  One of the dynamics of families with BI survivor members is that not only are many of the frustrations ongoing, even if only intermittently, but also that prognosis and outcomes are often difficult to predict.  Because of this it makes sense to sharpen or acquire effective coping skills and conflict resolution strategies to reduce frustration in the future.   

Our hope is this discussion will shed light on how to best cope with common family member frustrations, and to do so with the aim of contributing not only to alleviating the stress unique to these challenges, but also on improving relationships among survivors and their family and friends.

For example, "When I send my husband to the store to get three or four things, odds are he'll forget at least one thing. 

Or, for instance, "How many times is my dad going to ask me what I went to college for?  Or what my wife's name is?  Or how OLD I am!?" 

Or, "How can I help my daughter change her inappropriate behavior when she can't remember most of the things she does?

Faith has been married to a TBI survivor (BIRRDsong Board Member Had Walmer) for thirty years.

landis' dad is a TBI survivor of forty years.

As part of your RSVP, please take a moment to write a few sentences to a few paragraphs about a recurring issue or common frustration you experience as a family member or friend of a survivor. 

Thank you so much and please, please bring interested
friends, caregivers - This will be a Great Meeting!
(Enjoy the food)

Had Walmer


Friday, September 16, 2011

Request: Fellow survivors/loving caregivers/interested, please post comments.

I continually read the medical statistics, 1.5 to 3 million head injury, TBI, PT SD, strokes per year -  just here in the USA.  I am just getting this project started

- you have all you need right here and now in you. No medical equipment, no drugs (unless you talk to the Harvard Psychedelic Club), physical therapy is optional.

This simple mindfulness practice takes you only and fully into the here and now, within - this body (it's a miracle as it is),

and these thoughts (some will serve the life I want, otherwise the thinking which I do and know are only a path to suffering), how much gratitude can i really honestly acknowledge in this moment (who was nice and good to me).

Remember, see right now this one precious life we have.

Please post response to this blog, Gold Mind Meditation Project, we are a community of committed conversations (committed to having a life we love!). Go ahead your here, post something.

GMMP: Had's Story



Mindfulness Practice and TBI,
The Gold Mind Meditation Project

“Until you have the inner discipline that brings calmness of mind, external facilities and conditions will never bring the joy and happiness you seek. On the other hand, if you possess this inner quality, it will be possible to live a happy and joyful life.”  Dalai Lama

Notes to our much loved son, Had - a time of agony, love, sense of loss and hope, encouragement and realization that you have been given life because of your unfulfilled destiny.”
Jan 21 6PM "I'm finally enroute to see you.  Tonight I will get to your room by 10 to 11 PM, hopefully.  At any rate I will see you, hug you, and kiss you tonight.  Just as I did when you were a little boy.  As I look out of the window of this 707 the moon is almost full.  How much effect do that moon and the planets have on one life and our destiny?”
From Journal kept by my father, H.C. Walmer D.O. at UC Davis Hospital at time of my auto-accident:                              Dec. 31, 1977.

This is the story of an auto accident resulting in my Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) all those years ago.  Modern medicine has become very good at enabling us to survive a wide range of traumas that previously lead to death.  We, as survivors of TBI, have had a world shattering experience. With Mindfulness practice that I will describe we can learn to befriend our new lives, join with others and find ease in the present moment.  Much healing is possible.  Here’s my story.

I was riding in a car with friends, returning to Oregon from California after my college’s winter break.  Traveling north on the interstate we crashed into a car that had missed its exit and was backing up on the road.  At 66 mph we impacted, crushing the right side of the car where I was seated. My head, with eyeglasses slammed into the dashboard and Jaws-of-Life were required to free me from the vehicle.  I was rushed to an Emergency Room in a coma.

My brain swelled in my skull.  This was before state seat-belt laws, as well as the current medical relief mitigating the critical intracranial pressure of brain swelling.  In six days, with the powerful help of my parents and formal medical care, I regained consciousness.  I had amnesia, diplopia (double-vision w/ anisocoria, maximally dilated pupils), and severe TBI. I walked with great difficulty.  In the short instant of this accident I was not who I used to be.  My life was dramatically and forever changed. 

I went home with my parents and slowly recuperated.  Repeated Osteopathic treatments aided balance and motor coordination issues improved over time.  Often I was in a foggy mental state, with occasional glimpses of clarity. Plans for my future existed only as fleeting positive images in my mind.  That following fall I went back to college thinking my life would be just the same as my previous times there.  Not so.  It wasn’t.  Those plans and images were now derailed, couldn’t get back on the tracks.  I had great difficulty learning and people didn’t relate to me as they once did.  I struggled with an array of unfamiliar cognitive deficits.  I was back at the same place with a different me.  This condition of TBI was only vaguely recognized. 

New frustrations arose to surprise me.  My romantic relationship split up, as I would often rage out of control within, emotionally and couldn’t figure it out.  Anger would grab my sensibilities.  My ability to be a fast study was gone; I now had a memory that was effectively Teflon for new facts.  Frustration was a persistent undercurrent of my entire life.

Boundary issues and very slow mental processing made for a whole new mix in my social and personal world.  Who was I now?  In short I needed to learn to befriend a new me, a newcomer to the land of TBI.

Fortunately in 1982 I met a wonderful and highly supportive woman.  She encouraged me to complete my college degree, get work and we eventually married.  She already had a wonderful son and we had two more incredible children and I cannot say enough about the treasure and contribution of our empowering and loving family relationship.   As I lost one job after another I met and came to know more of my cognitive deficits.  Many relationships break up with TBI.  I was so fortunate in marrying this woman who has been strongly capable of holding all that occurred (super mother). As well and quite unbeknownst to me, she, with her character, was actually providing my missing executive functions.

Ten years after the accident, a friend said, “I’m going out to Spirit Rock this evening to sit with Jack Kornfield in meditation.  You might like it.”  Curious, I went and followed the sitting meditation instructions.  In a matter of weeks I had experiences of peace and energy, arising.  I was inspired. I saw clearly that I was capable of learning the beneficial qualities I heard spoken of in the Dharma Talks.  I regularly went to the Monday evening meditation sits at Spirit Rock with Jack Kornfield and other dharma teachers.  I find each of the “seven factors of awakening” coming into play now in my practice: investigation, energy, joy, tranquility, concentration, equanimity and mindfulness.  This tangible result fuels my practice.  I know that it makes a difference for me to do it.  It’s self-motivating: participate, learn this skill and get positive benefits.

Meditation is a very forgiving practice.  It’s ‘win win’, you practice skillfully or learn what’s needed. That’s the actual process.  Losing track of being attentive with a meditation object and going off into worlds of thought is a natural phenomenon of the mind. That is exactly what minds do and as a person meditating we get to simply observe this as a regular process.  Wise instruction here is noticing what the mind has done and bringing attention back to the chosen object, say breathing or the body.  When the mind wanders into thinking you haven’t done something wrong, you are gently developing the practice of mindfulness as people have done for thousands of years.  Now, I am fruitfully bringing this practice to bear on all my life experiences.  I savor being mindfully present with various life experiences, pleasing and unpleasing – yes, both sides.  This is not living in fantasy, rather being present with things as they are – feeling emotions and all else as that arises within each of us and communicating honestly.

Regular meditation practice has brought deepened levels of clarity and awareness to how I relate to my self and world.  I am more able to hold sustained attention to any chosen activity.  I practice everyday either with time sitting or in being awake to the moments of my life experience.  With this mindfulness I can accept and gently hold whatever states arise in my consciousness or know that if I’m overloaded, to back off.  The mind can be a crazy beast.  This training grounds me in a sense of dignified inner wellness and peace including the damages of TBI.  Mindfulness practice isn’t about changing me into a better me, rather it’s about befriending who I am.  Healing (neuroplasticity) is a long process.  Mindfulness and meditation open me to energy and the choice I have in this moment to see clearly the effects arising from my TBI and then be more appropriate in my actions.  Not throwing gas on the flames.
    
TBI is still very much a part of my daily life.  It hasn’t gone away or been miraculously cured.  I have learned to live skillfully with poor short-term memory.  Emotional outbursts pass more quickly as I can see them, know they will pass and stop denying them.  I have continuing difficulty with interpersonal boundaries.  Though I am bright and cheerful, good at getting jobs, I continue to lose them. I identify with all of this much less and that gives me much peace and ease.

My wife and I are now ‘empty nesters.’  I savor the sweet memories of our children growing up as well as the amazing adults they now are.  I’ve been practicing on this path for 23 years.  Last year I had a ‘Bodhisattva insight’ (Buddhist noble goal, contributing to others) and with my dear wife’s encouragement I formulated this mindfulness meditation project.  I intend to share and teach mindfulness to fellow survivors in my TBI community.  Despite ongoing frustrations with the cognitive deficits, recurring fogginess and loss of jobs, mindfulness practice just works in creating peace of mind. It returns me to a joy and clarity in being with what I love. I am happier and more satisfied throughout my life.

TBI has stricken millions. It has often been misdiagnosed and thus poorly treated. In top-of-the line and expensive rehabilitation programs I was taught 'compensatory coping strategies’ for the 'cognitive deficits' of my brain injury. These strategies were well intended, but may fall short of addressing our need for inner well being. I had to learn that necessary inner transformation for myself.  I learned to sift gold from the gravel of my life experiences and found meaning and a purpose for myself. This is not formal rehabilitation; rather it is resting back into the present moment where neuroplasticity and our bodies’ innate healing systems can engage.  Acceptance and making peace with this condition arises for me from doing the mindfulness practice.

I recommend a variety of meditation techniques for different types of TBI.  The first foundation of mindfulness is the body.  Here we bring awareness to sensations that actually inform us that we have a body - pulsations, contact with clothing, feeling our weight, that which you directly sense, non-conceptual.  Seated, standing, walking or lying down are all useful postures for your body in meditation.  With awareness of the body in this way we can then return our attention to the chosen primary object of attention. I usually use the breath as this object, after all it’s everywhere I am and is always present to be observed.  What I do is bring attention to breathing, changing it in no way. Watching the entire process: in and out and in and out, exactly as it is.  We are developing a skill here, being present with the present moment, just as it is:  patiently, attentively in a clear focus of attention.  This is a starting point for our inner transformation, in being willing to have it be as it is.

Head-injury is an invisible disability, not easily seen from the outside like a wheelchair or crutches. However, it’s still a disability known profoundly from inside, and of course to those close to us.  It is very different for each person and family. We must each explore that which will work in your own situation.  Gold Mind Meditation Project has the purpose and intended result  of helping you transform your relationship with this persistent condition, not promising rehabilitation – choosing to do a practice intentionally that can have us be strong in the present moment, able to be with much that previously overwhelmed us.  This is teaching a powerful skill of mind that can be learned with regular practice.  It is with energy and joy I now work on actually teaching and using this extraordinary practice with survivor-lead brain injury support groups here in Portland, OR.

Had Walmer lives in Lake Oswego, OR has BS in Community Development from Oregon State University is founder of Gold Mind Meditation Project, and of The Barking Dog Library, www.portlandinsight.org/library Vipassana/Insight Meditation practice for 24 years

Monday, June 20, 2011

Latest Source Document


Time ran short last Saturday, rather we got to practice mindfulness right then and there, so it of course was PERFECT.  It was the Brainstormers II group at Legacy Emanuel in Portland.
Gold Mind Meditation Project
(Benefits for fellow head-injury survivors)         

Head-injury is an invisible disability, not easily seen from the outside like a wheelchair or crutches. However, it’s still a disability known profoundly from inside, different for each person. Gold Mind Meditation Project has the purpose of helping you transform your relationship with this changing condition.

I speak from personal experience.  Returning to college years ago, I was involved in a serious car accident. I got facial laceration and a skull fracture, was in a coma and Jaws-of-Life were required to free me from the vehicle. When I came to I had amnesia, diplopia (double-vision), and TBI (traumatic brain injury). In a short instant I was not who I used to be.  My life was forever changed.

Since that time I have lived with the challenges of TBI.  I struggled to complete my university degree and to get on with my life. I was cloudy and very unsure of what I could be or do. Within a few years I experienced frustrating failure in the loss of several jobs before learning that this was the result of my TBI.

TBI has often been misdiagnosed and thus poorly treated. In top-of-the line and expensive rehabilitation programs I was taught 'compensatory coping strategies' for the 'cognitive deficits' of my brain injury. These strategies were well-intended rehab but fell short of addressing my inner well being.  They didn't work for me,
I had to learn the necessary inner transformation for myself.  I had to learn to sift gold from the gravel of my life experience in order to find meaning and a purpose for myself.
  
Knowing the devastation of this condition from the inside, I wish to share what I've found to be a powerful healing benefit for me, and possibly for you. I’ve learned mindfulness meditation practice (Insight Meditation).  Learning this long-term practice can enhance your life, with satisfaction and way more ease and smiles. Really! There is light at the end of this tunnel for each survivor.

Regular meditation practice has helped me be clear-eyed and mindful, capable of sustained attention, with this presence I can accept and gently hold whatever moods arise in my consciousness.  This training is intended to relieve suffering and dissatisfaction, freeing the mind of illusions. It can ground us in a sense of dignified inner wellness, and peace beyond the damage of TBI.

With this practice you can develop a new skill and learn exactly what is most needed to enhance your life. Mindfulness practice can lead to brain healing (neuroplasticity).  I am now choosing to live my life intentionally and more skillfully, making peace with this malady and finding healing. You can too.
This is the start of a new path!


GOLD MIND MEDITATION PROJECT http://hadwalmer-goldmind.blogspot.com/
Had C. Walmer        hwalmer@gmail.com      (503) 332-3046  

Sunday, May 8, 2011

May 2011: BIRRDSONG at Legacy GoodSam-Portland

Gold Mind Meditation Project

 
If anyone says that a person must reap according to his deeds, if anyone thinks the law of karma is inexorable, then he is saying that there is no spiritual life or growth and nor is there any opportunity to bring confusion to an end. But if anyone says that what a person reaps is in accordance with his deeds, in that case a spiritual life can exist and there is opportunity for realization.

- Anguttara Nikaya
 
With 17 people attending: Survivors, therapists and students, I presented my project
and have now set up the introduction to meditation for next month's BIRRDSONG meeting.

It's an innovative grass roots survivor led brain injury recovery support organization. Focusing on abilities, cognitive & personal development, health, personal growth, re-learning, skill building; using technology and assisting tools, social networking, direct survivor services and the development of a wide-net brain injury survivor and support persons resource directory and network in the NW and beyond. We see those who are successfully facing the challenges of living with brain injury as our greatest resource. Our mission in the development and support of survivors, family and support persons assist in getting these talented and highly motivated community members plugged back into our community systems; work, school, business enterprise, board membership and community service.

We have survivor led brain injury support meetings 1st Saturday of each month 9:30-11:00 @Legacy Good Samaritan hospital Wilcox building Room A
2211 NW Marshall

latest source-page:
Gold Mind Meditation Project

(Benefits for fellow head-injury survivors)         

Head-injury is an invisible disability, not easily seen from the outside like
a wheelchair or crutches. However, it’s still a disability known profoundly from
inside:  a new headspace has arisen, different for each person. Gold Mind Meditation Project has the purpose and intended result of having you transform your relationship with this changing condition.

I speak from personal experience.  Returning to college years ago, I was involved in a serious car accident. I had facial laceration and a skull fracture, was in a coma and Jaws-of-Life were required to free me from the vehicle. When I came to I had amnesia, diplopia (double-vision), and TBI (traumatic brain injury). In a short instant I was not who I used to be.  My life was forever changed.

Since that time I have lived with the challenges of TBI.  I struggled to complete my degree at the University and to get on with my life, very unsure of what I could be or do. Within a few years I experienced frustrating failure in the loss of several jobs before learning that this was the result of my TBI. There is light at the end of this tunnel, for each survivor.

TBI has often been misdiagnosed and thus poorly treated. In top-of-the line and expensive rehabilitation programs I was taught 'compensatory coping strategies' for the 'cognitive deficits' of my brain injury. These strategies were well-intended rehab but fell short of addressing my inner well being.  They didn't work for me; I had to learn the necessary inner transformation for myself.  This is cleansing the mind, sifting the gravel of our experience and finding the gold within.
  
Knowing the devastation of this condition from the inside, I wish to share what I've found to be a powerful healing benefit for me, and possibly for you - I’ve learned mindfulness meditation practice (Insight Meditation).  Learning this self-generating long-term practice can enhance your life, with satisfaction and way more ease and smiles.  Really! 

Regular practice has me be clear-eyed and capable of sustained attention, capable of gently holding the array of arising moods. This practice is based on intent to relieve suffering and dissatisfaction, cleansing the mind of illusions, and grounding us in a sense of dignified inner wellness, at peace beyond the damages.

With this practice you can develop a new skill and learn exactly what is most needed for you from seeing directly your own life experience. Mindfulness practice can lead to brain healing (neuroplasticity).  I am now choosing to live my life intentionally and more skillfully, making peace with this malady and finding healing.  You can too. 
This is the start of a new path!


GOLD MIND MEDITATION PROJECT http://hadwalmer-goldmind.blogspot.com/
Had C. Walmer      hwalmer@gmail.com      (503) 323-3046  

 

Friday, May 6, 2011

Tbi support Group meeting

Am taking myself to Birrdsong Survivor led
support group at Legacy Hospital in Portland tomorrow morning. Will present
this and perhaps lead a meditation introduction session.


(Benefits for fellow head-injury survivors)         

Head-injury is an invisible disability, not easily seen from the outside like a wheelchair or crutches. However, it’s still a disability known profoundly from
inside:  a new headspace has arisen.  Gold Mind Meditation Project has the purpose and intended result of having you transform your condition.

I speak from personal experience.  Returning to college years ago, I was involved in a serious car accident. I had facial laceration and a skull fracture, was in a coma and Jaws-of-Life were required to free me from the vehicle. When I came to I had amnesia, diplopia (double-vision), and TBI (traumatic brain injury). In a short instant I was not who I used to be.  My life was forever changed.

Since that time I have lived with the challenges of TBI.  I struggled to complete my degree at the University and to get on with my life, very unsure of what I could be or do. Within a few years I experienced frustrating failure in the loss of several jobs before learning that this was the result of my TBI. There is light at the end of this tunnel.

TBI has often been misdiagnosed and thus poorly treated. In top-of-the line and expensive rehabilitation programs I was taught 'compensatory coping strategies' for the 'cognitive deficits' of my brain injury. These strategies were well-intended rehab but fell short of addressing my inner well being.  They didn't work for me; I had to learn the necessary inner transformation for myself.  This is cleansing the mind and finding the gold within.
  
Knowing the devastation of this condition from the inside, I wish to share what I've found to be a powerful healing benefit for me, and possibly for you. Learning this self-generating long-term practice will enhance your life, with satisfaction and way more ease and smiles.  Really! 

I discovered mindfulness meditation.  Regular practice has me be clear-eyed and capable of sustained attention. This practice is based on the intent to relieve suffering and dissatisfaction, cleansing the mind of illusions, and grounding us in a sense of dignified inner wellness, at peace beyond the damages.

With practice you’ll develop a new skill and learn exactly what is most needed for you from direct life experience. Mindfulness practice can lead to brain healing (neuroplasticity).  I am now choosing to live my life intentionally and more skillfully, making peace with this malady.  You can too.  This is the start of a new path!



GOLD MIND MEDITATION PROJECT http://hadwalmer-goldmind.blogspot.com/
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Gold-Mind-Meditation-Project-GMMP 
Had C. Walmer hwalmer@gmail.com          
 

Monday, April 4, 2011

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Groovy

Meditation, inner transformation, going beyond the ordinary. It has a certain allure. But do we really want it? Do we really even need it?

The mind certainly functions without it. But the mind tends to function in grooves. It is like an old record where the needle follows a single track, rarely jumping out. We each have our grooves. Where they are useful and productive, life feels good; where they are limiting and counterproductive, not so good. Sometimes they can make us feel down and anxious, sometimes joyful and elated.

What we sometimes don’t notice is how deep our grooves are, though it may become more apparent when we try to break them! It’s easy following the same routines—but try to be more patient, exercise for twenty minutes, or eat healthy? No groove.

Buddhist training helps us wear away at counterproductive grooves. But it takes effort. Our habits put up a fuss when we try to change them. Our grooves are comfortable. We’re used to them. They’re our grooves. Meditating for five minutes a day doesn’t seem like a big undertaking, but it can take a stronger act of will than we think. We want to say it isn’t working, we can’t meditate, it’s too weird, we don’t have time.

It’s true. We don’t need to meditate. But if we want to break out of our grooves we have to do something. Otherwise we stay stuck—that’s what makes them grooves!

Monday, February 21, 2011

Boldly creating this Project (Gold Mind)

The following expresses well the sentiment and what actually arises since I've initiated this project.  I am called to - whatever is ahead in this commitment.

“Until one is committed, there is [always] hesitancy, the chance to draw back. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.”

For fellows -
From John O"Donohue's poem, "For a friend, on the arrival of illness":
May you find in yourself
A courageous hospitality.
May you use this illness
As a lantern to illuminate
...The new qualities that will emerge in you.
 
and>
The Guest House

This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they're a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

 
~ Rumi ~

Sunday, February 20, 2011

reminder

“Until one is committed, there is [always] hesitancy, the chance to draw back. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.”

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

 Saturday: Brainstormers II in Portland


Tuesday: Portland tbi Social Club

http://biaoregon.org/supportgrp.htm

Friday, January 14, 2011

2011 - January tbi Support Group Mtgs. in Portland

Presenting GMMP to support group meetings in Portland
http://biaoregon.org/supportgrp.htm

1)  Brainstormers II at Emanuel Hospital (Saturday, Jan. 15, 10A)
2)  tbi social group at Pietros in Milwakie (Tuesday, Jan.  18, 11:30A)

(Benefits for fellow head-injury survivors)         

Head-injury is an invisible disability, not easily seen from the outside like a wheelchair or crutches. However it’s still a disability known profoundly, from the inside.  Gold Mind Meditation Project exists to offer you the possibility of transforming your disability into capability: being present and awake to an abiding wellness, in spite of your injury.  I speak from my personal experience,  my brain injury.  You can cultivate your mind's inherent strengths. You can learn a self- generating long-term practice that will enhance your life, with satisfaction and way more smiles.  Really! 

Let me share my experience.  Returning to college thirty years ago, I was involved in a serious car wreck. I was in a coma and Jaws-of-Life were required to free me. When I came to I had amnesia, diplopia (double-vision), and TBI (traumatic brain injury). In short, I was not who I used to be.  My life was forever changed.  Since that time I have lived with the challenges of TBI.  I know the devastation of this condition from the inside, and wish to share what I've found to be a powerful healing benefit for me, and possibly for you.

This malady has often been misdiagnosed and thus poorly treated. I struggled to complete my degree at the University and to get on with my life, very unsure of what I could be or do. Within a few years I experienced the frustrating failure of the loss of several jobs before learning that this was the result of my TBI. There is light at the end of this tunnel.

In top-of-the line and expensive rehabilitation programs I was taught 'compensatory coping strategies' for the 'cognitive deficits' of my brain injury. These strategies are well-intended rehab but fell short of addressing my inner well being.  They didn't work for me; I had to learn the necessary inner transformation for myself.  This is the cleansing of mind and knowing it's gold.  

I discovered Insight Meditation. This simple practice of sitting mindfully helps me be clear-eyed and capable of sustained attention, knowing that as obstacles arise I have the capacity to face them directly from a steady place of clear seeing.  This practice is based on the intent to relieve suffering and dissatisfaction, cleansing the mind of illusions, and grounding us in a sense of dignified inner wellness, at peace beyond the physical damage.

With practice you can become aware of the present moment and learn exactly what is most needed for you. Healing is a possibility.  It's been well documented by neurologists, psychologists, and doctors: mindfulness practice leads to positive brain healing (neuroplasticity). I am choosing to live my life intentionally and more skillfully.  You can tooThis is the start of a new path!

GOLD MIND MEDITATION PROJECT http://hadwalmer-goldmind.blogspot.com/
Had C. Walmer hwalmer@gmail.com